Friend Advice on Sidechat | My “best friend” has been telling everyone that I’m faking my chronic illnesses. Telling people I “bailed” when I was urgently hospitalized was tough to hear. I don’t know what to do.

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Friend Advice 11w

My “best friend” has been telling everyone that I’m faking my chronic illnesses. Telling people I “bailed” when I was urgently hospitalized was tough to hear. I don’t know what to do.

Anonymous 11w

not your problem brah this person has revealed their true feelings towards/about you and seems like a shit friend just based off of this. is this a repeat offense on their part? like frequently invalidating you?

Anonymous 11w

The hard truth is that this person is not your friend, a real friend wouldn’t do that

Anonymous 11w

Take pictures of yourself next time you go to the hospital

Anonymous

#1 11w

They take my inconsistency extremely personal. While we were friends before I got very sick, I am always clear that unfortunately I will be flakey sometimes with the people in my life. They talked about me so poorly to everyone at our school while I was in and out of the hospital last year. Including their father who asked me if my fatigue was real and if I was “fixed” because it annoyed his kid