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Friend Advice 21h
If you invite me out, obviously invite whoever else you want, but please tell me if someone else is coming. If I don’t know someone and I’m not prepared to talk to someone else, I don’t talk to them, which is awkward when you’re a group of three
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Anonymous 15h

or just be a normal person and socialize, no need to be so reserved

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Anonymous 15h

Valid takes 500

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Anonymous 8h

Totally valid take, it’s nice to have a heads up

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Anonymous 14h

I love being surprised! I love meeting new people

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Anonymous 4h

Look I love meeting new ppl but if I think it’s the two of us and u pu with like 4 ppl I’ve never met I will not be emotionally prepared lmao- a quick “hey is it ok if a few of my friends join” goes a long way and I always say yes but like plssss lmk

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Anonymous 4h

As someone who tries to manage crippling social anxiety, I think it’s weird to expect people to behave in a certain way you prefer. It feels a little self centered in perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

I also want to know beforehand.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

it’s still polite to give notice tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

esp if it was only gonna be the 2 of u

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

it’s not a relationship, your friends can have other friends and people they hangout with. Maybe they think you guys could be good friends so they make an introduction

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

“Just be normal and socialize” bro doesn’t understand social anxiety, or any sort of disability that may include social anxiety Nor does he understand basic decency…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

Yeah sure all that but give a heads up first

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

Are you this dense? Nobody is disagreeing with you yet you continue to defend ur claim. Does your brain not work at all?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5h

Even in a relationship, your partner can have other friends. AND it’s still courteous to notify the person you made a plan with that you’re changing the plan and bringing other people

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 4h

Long story short wanna hang out? (I promise it’s not a surprise diddler party)

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