Friend Advice on Sidechat | My friend keeps sleeping over at my dorm just like. Without asking. (I don’t have a roommate) They stayed here for a bit while they were having roommate issues but now have a new room just down the hall. I love sleepovers but I want my alone time too.

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Friend Advice 2w

My friend keeps sleeping over at my dorm just like. Without asking. (I don’t have a roommate) They stayed here for a bit while they were having roommate issues but now have a new room just down the hall. I love sleepovers but I want my alone time too.

Anonymous 2w

You should be honest with the person and let them know how you feel asap. You don’t want it to turn into something where you let it boil up inside then you blow up later on (and say things you don’t mean) because you didn’t address it sooner. If they’re truly your friend and have your best interest in mind, they will 100% understand

Anonymous 2w

It’s not that deep, “I just wanna have the room to myself”. There problem solved. If they respect ur boundary then green flags if they don’t then stop people pleasing

Anonymous

#2 2w

Depending on the person this might fly. But saying something like that could come off as confrontational which is what you want to avoid here. Your sole aim should be to make them aware of how you feel, not potentially start an argument.