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My best friend has… issues. She’s very quick to over react. Very quick to anger. Shes always complaining. And recently, I told her I wanted to watch this show. She she proceeds to tell me that she doesn’t like that show and “ts weird”. Isn’t that rude????
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Anonymous 5w

Aw man. Not to defend her or anything, but she’s so relatable to me. Can’t say I’d go so far as to make fun of a show you wanna watch though. I’m really sorry you’ve had to put up with this. I’ve been that toxic friend before and after a little self-reflection, let me tell you, knowing that isn’t a great feeling. Is she in therapy?

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Anonymous 5w

I wouldn’t want to be friends with her

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Anonymous 5w

I feel like this isn’t someone you want to be around

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Anonymous 5w

anger is a secondary emotion so maybe if she’s so irritated maybe ask her if everything is okay ask her ab herself family and her grades and see if that changes anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

We’re so similar is our interest, but it’s kind of draining. She can’t make a decision to save her life, then makes ME feel controlling when I make the decision. She constantly makes things about herself and turn things into a competition. I love her to death but idk. Also we stopped me friends for awhile cause she got mad at me ab something and didn’t talk to me for weeks. THEN SHE GOT MAD THAT I DIDN’T TEXT HER HAPPY BIRTHDAY. LIKE WHY WOULD I???? She apologized for it which is why we’re buds

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

She doesn’t think she needs any help. Like at all. I think she could benefit from it though. She always talks about how she’s been improving and she’s been doing good but when she tells me these story’s I just don’t think she has. She’s hours late to almost everything we plan. Her excuse is always “that’s how I was raised” or “that’s just how I am”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I love her very very much. And I enjoy being around her when she’s in a good mood, but when she’s not. It’s just so draining

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I will do this! Thanks!

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