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I joined a friend group that all knew each other before me. Sometimes I get left out of hangouts & don’t know if it’s on purpose. They’ll walk into my dorm room to grab smth and then go back to the hangout room without inviting me. Am I overthinking?
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Anonymous 1w

coming into your dorm but not inviting you is rlly weird but I feel like if you join a friend group where everyone is already close you can’t expect to immediately or always be invited to every hang out. Sometimes people just wanna be with their close friends and it takes time to get close with people.

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Anonymous 3d

Fuck them. Next time, lock the door and tell them to fuck off, that you’re not interested in being used. The first love is self-love. Don’t let them disrespect you like that. They don’t care about you if they aren’t letting you know to come hang out with them. Fuck those brats.

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