
Because I bully him too harshly, which I do sometimes; but there’s another girl in our friend group who also is as harsh as me, (only I got the message). I told her I understood and I would stop, but I don’t even feel welcomed in my own friend group now because I feel like I fucked up. She generally made me feel like I can’t be myself and I should stay quiet. I can’t even talk about how I feel to her because she starts crying and will say that I ain’t happy for her, but I am very happy for her.
That’s tough, I think that maybe explain that you didn’t know he felt that way and that you do want to be friends with them all so you will keep in mind their opinions and tell them to be straightforward if it happens again. It might be awkward for a bit but with communication I would hope it gets better. If you still feel like you can’t be yourself tell your friend. Also I’m not a professional btw.