Friend Advice on Sidechat | I will never tell a friend of my mine how I feel again😂 you have the audacity to not respond to me after I’m opening up which I rarely do. I wasn’t looking for a convo. Just checking in with a friend. But yeah never again.

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Friend Advice 2w

I will never tell a friend of my mine how I feel again😂 you have the audacity to not respond to me after I’m opening up which I rarely do. I wasn’t looking for a convo. Just checking in with a friend. But yeah never again.

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Anonymous 2w

Just don’t open up to that specific person anymore. Not that I don’t get how hurtful that is because I have been there, but there are lots of us who would never not respond!

Anonymous 1w

Just an update: they’re a liar too. I asked to do something and they said they’re staying in tonight. An hour later, they’re on the golf course. Just tell me you have other plans idgaf😂

Anonymous 2w

Why didn’t they respond?

Anonymous 2w

Period then

Anonymous 2w

Opening up is scary. Just getting silence back makes me regret saying anything in the first place. Sometimes people aren’t used to talking about feelings just like we’re not used to sharing them. I suggest you directly ask him what he thinks about what you said.

Anonymous 2w

Idk opening up is fine but maybe over text isn’t the best way if you don’t know someone is safe

Anonymous

#1 2w

Idk and idc at this point. It was my first time trying to be open with him. I’m still going to be cool with him. I know what type of friendship I’m working with now.

Anonymous

#4 2w

I’m good😂 like I said responding to someone else, I just know the type of friendship it is now.

Anonymous

#5 2w

It wasn’t really like a super crazy thing. I was telling him the reason why I Irish goodbyed everyone over the weekend. I was just expecting an acknowledgement. Nothing too crazy to have a full on conversation. I would have been fine with a “yeah that sucks”

Anonymous

OP 2w

i have soo been here and it is really stressful because we as humans are wired to detect threat when there is an unresolved social interaction, but for some reason, i think a lot of people just don’t view texting the same way & just get overwhelmed/avoidant with texting

Anonymous

OP 2w

Idk why some people would rather not respond altogether than just explain that their social battery is low or whatever

Anonymous

OP 2w

you could bring it up to him & just ask if there is some reason he didn’t respond

Anonymous

#3 2w

Hear me out, he responded to someone in our group chat when he received my text maybe 10 minutes before.

Anonymous

OP 2w

Okay yeah, then that’s just rude. I really don’t like when people act like that, i will never get why that’s a thing some people do

Anonymous

OP 2w

Was that person in the group chat saying something emotionally weighty though? Like it takes different amounts of energy to respond to different things I agree it’s shitty not to respond to you at all, especially if he hasn’t by now, I’m just saying

Anonymous

#5 2w

No. It was jokes