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Friend Advice 4w
How long should I wait before asking my old best friend if they wanna be friends again? It's been so many years, but we stopped being friends because I liked her a different way she liked me. Feels like we won't be friends unless she reaches out, sad
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Anonymous 4w

Reach out now. You’re clearly still care and think about her so just reach out instead of regretting

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I've reached out before, 4-5years ago skill to be friends, we also talked about our situation we had and she forgave me for but at that time she didn't wanna be friends. I would reach out but feel like she will think "oh he still likes me and is thinking about me after all these years " In a bad way. Also idk how I'd feel I use to have feels for her I don't anymore but idk just feels risky, feels like if she needed a friend she would reach out. Also we were only friends for a year even tho we

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Our friendship felt like we had been friends way longer than that. Just feel like she will think I still have feels for her if I reach out which I don't only platonic. I also kinda feel like she forgot about me, maybe I'm just a memory of her past she'd like to forget.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Just checked my DMs it's been almost 3 years since I last messaged her and 5 years since what happened happened so I think I have to wait

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