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hey guys is it normal to still not be over my friend breakup from a year ago :( i still think about the mean things she said and sometime i just wish she would do it all over and actually care about me this time
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Anonymous 8w

Yeahh I feel the same

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Anonymous 8w

I just had an awful friend breakup last Wednesday dawg don’t say stuff like this 😭

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Anonymous 7w

It’s totally normal to not be over something like that, especially if your friendship was really important to you! Always remember you’re worth more than the pain they caused you. Don’t let their memory treat you badly!

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Anonymous 7w

it’s pretty normal especially if it was a close friendship. i still mourn my bestfriend from 8th grade and i’m a college freshman now😭 it truly does get better with time tho you don’t have to get over it right away.

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Anonymous 7w

Been there done that it gets better twin

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Anonymous 7w

Is it like a yearning still? Or only occasional, triggered by a thought or memory maybe? “Getting over someone” (a friend) doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t miss them/the connection/the relationship—it just isn’t intense or overwhelming and all-consuming grief. Losing someone is one of those things that you can’t really “get over”. It’s always a part of you—just like them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

istg I’m gonna ask a trained therapist to mediate us like we’re in couples therapy. I miss her so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

if you need to talk dm me :( it can be so hard but you gotta remember that there are better times ahead

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