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My guy friend who has known I’m a lesbian the entire time we’ve been friends confessed feelings for me and is pissy that I don’t want to “give it a chance” bro I’m gayyy! Actually fuck my big chungus fucking life he’s genuinely acting like I lead him on😭
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Anonymous 4w

It’s gonna have to be wraps for me on being nice to straight men I’m going full on misandrist atp it’s not worth the drama

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Anonymous 4w

definition of straight male entitlement. "surely she means lesbian except for me"

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Anonymous 4w

Yeah, he’s just gonna have to stop being a baby about this genuinely😭

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Anonymous 4w

I’m sorry babe that sucks ass is he stupid or something

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Anonymous 4w

I’ve had this convo with all of my close girlfriends, I see them as asexual beings and/or sisters basically

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Anonymous 4w

Drop him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Too much media tells men lesbians just “havent met the right guy”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Man ive never been more grateful to have two straight male friends (known since childhood) that have both been accepting of me being a lesbian. Both have just been like “oh awesome we can talk about girls together :)” and its been sick. Im sorry that this happened to you though

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Which media? I consider myself well read, I enjoy reading classical literature along with a ton of comic books, fantasy, horror, ect. I also love romance, like really. I've never seen any media with this trope personally though, especially any good media

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

i agree, as a lesbian i never see this trope in media per se, its more coming from psychotic conservative spaces and influencers than like, traditional mefia

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Im happy for u girl but like lowkey I hate the way straight guys try to talk about girls with me anyways😭 I think I’m just better off as a man hating lesbian im so over it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

100% agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Its a huge porn trope. Like enough to convince guys its a real phenomenon. Its not, and anyone that believes it is a dunce

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Women plural have broken their lesbianism for me, I think its a small percentage of lesbians that give up on men and settle

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Im sending bedbugs to your place of residence

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