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My friend has had a baby before she was ready and now she complains about ppl not talking to her as much or hanging out w/ her. So I try to call her, get her to ft me with the baby, hang out etc but she never FTs me, and flakes the day of hanging out
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Anonymous 11w

And I try to be understanding bc she does have a kid, but even when she invites me to places, I say yes but then when it’s the day of it just doesn’t happen. We talk sometimes but she never picks up the FaceTime call. And hardly ever picks up the phone either. Lol idk what to even do now. I don’t want her to feel like I’m not trying to be her friend now bc I still am, but wth

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Anonymous 11w

We have only hung out twice in the past 5 months. Idk what to do. I mean she may be having trouble getting someone to watch her baby but she hasnt even told me that. Will just not text me back on the day we’re supposed to see each other. She just invited me for the holidays and I wonder if that’s even going to happen now

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Anonymous 11w

It sounds like you are trying to fix something they don’t want to fix. It feels like she needs to vent about being a parent, not actually looking to meet friends. If you feel like it might be a babysitter issue, offer to meet at her place, and be ready to get interrupted every 3 minutes or more.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Maybe talk to her about the communication issues you’re having and ask if there’s other things going on. That’s the only way you’ll find out.

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