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While hanging out with my sister, I’ve found that one of her friends is really nice to hang around with and I kinda want to have a hangout with just her to get closer, but I’m not sure how to do that 😭
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Anonymous 4d

Maybe just ask you sister if she is cool with that, and invite her to hang out with you again but your sister can do other things while you’re together (like maybe making food or something) so that you have more one on one time to just chat and be friendly!

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Anonymous 4d

Definitely doesn’t help that I’m at my best around my sister so a part of me is worried that if she’s not there, her friend won’t like me as much

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4d

Maybe ask for her number or Snapchat or something at the end of the hang out and when your sister is busy ask if she would want to hang out with just you since she is busy

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4d

If that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4d

It makes sense, I actually already have her discord, I’m just anxious as hell lmao and don’t chat with her outside of when we happen to see each other in person. Hhhhhhhh I guess it’s just a matter of fighting through the fear and doing it anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Maybe just play games with her online then first! And yeah you’ve just gotta rip off the bandaid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

And my sister would /absolutely/ be willing to play along which honestly makes me a bit more scared lol because I know that as soon as I tell her, she will get the ball rolling and I won’t have any time to cower in fear while I wait for the courage to suddenly materialize 😭

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