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My boyfriend has my phone password and regularly goes on my phone to watch reels or like play games, but he won’t give or let me do the same on his? Idk I think it’s weird but he said something about how his mom was invasive as a kid and it icks him
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Anonymous 8w

why... does he need your phone for that...?

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Anonymous 8w

He’s doing something

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Anonymous 8w

That doesn’t seem like a fair trade

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Anonymous 8w

I’m not giving a grown ass man my password to shit lmaooo

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Anonymous 8w

why can’t he use his?

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Anonymous 8w

honestly i do the same shit with my bf lol. not that i won’t give him my password or my phone bc im hiding something (im not) idk it’s just myy phone yk? idk i just feel like he has no business being on it but not in a shady way. like gimme my phone lol

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Anonymous 8w

Dm

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Anonymous 8w

Most times means they’re hiding smth and they often get worried abt the other person cheating while doing shit so I would def have a convo bc that doesn’t seem right.

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Anonymous 8w

ngl i relate on some sense, i had an ipod when i was little and my siblings would always go on it and tease me about something and it was always embarrassing. anyway in my first relationship he’d demand to see my phone and i’d say no bc it made me uncomfortable i wasn’t hiding anything/cheating but like even someone seeing an ugly pic of me would throw me off the edge 😭 turns out he was cheating and projecting it onto me😍 so i’d get where ur bf is coming from but he’s being extremely unfair

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Anonymous 8w

Red flag for sure unless there’s more context

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Anonymous 8w

Sounds valid id respect his boundaries

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

It’s just when I have my phone out playing a game that he hasn’t seen, I’d let him play it or if I’m scrolling on insta he’ll take over and start scrolling. It’s not like he just grabs my phone rather than his

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

that still strikes me as really strange given that he is so opposed to you being on his

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Yeah it is weird, he won’t even let me hold his phone

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8w

He’s not worried about me cheating, I think he has this idea of snooping bc of his mom

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8w

Yeah, this is what I’m thinking it is. My boyfriend has said stuff similar to this too. Idk I just get anxious sometimes

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