why... does he need your phone for that...?

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Communicate to him how you feel. Don’t be shady and go snooping because if he *does* feel actually just feel uncomfortable by it, then you’re going to be in the wrong. If he’s fine with you not giving your password then I don’t see it as anything big. I do think it’s weird he won’t let you use it, hence the conversation. You can guage by his reaction what the vibe is and if it’s good, just look through his phone.

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He’s doing something

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That doesn’t seem like a fair trade

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I’m not giving a grown ass man my password to shit lmaooo

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why can’t he use his?

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honestly i do the same shit with my bf lol. not that i won’t give him my password or my phone bc im hiding something (im not) idk it’s just myy phone yk? idk i just feel like he has no business being on it but not in a shady way. like gimme my phone lol

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Dm

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Most times means they’re hiding smth and they often get worried abt the other person cheating while doing shit so I would def have a convo bc that doesn’t seem right.

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ngl i relate on some sense, i had an ipod when i was little and my siblings would always go on it and tease me about something and it was always embarrassing. anyway in my first relationship he’d demand to see my phone and i’d say no bc it made me uncomfortable i wasn’t hiding anything/cheating but like even someone seeing an ugly pic of me would throw me off the edge 😭 turns out he was cheating and projecting it onto me😍 so i’d get where ur bf is coming from but he’s being extremely unfair

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Red flag for sure unless there’s more context

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Sounds valid id respect his boundaries

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