Friend Advice on Sidechat | i said something a little racist to my best friend (who is black) and i don’t feel that way at all and i don’t know what was even going through my mind and now she keeps telling me im fine but i feel horrible. what can i do to make it better?

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Friend Advice 21w

i said something a little racist to my best friend (who is black) and i don’t feel that way at all and i don’t know what was even going through my mind and now she keeps telling me im fine but i feel horrible. what can i do to make it better?

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Anonymous 21w

What’d u say?

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Anonymous 21w

Tell her how sincerely sorry you are and that you see her pain and how you feel

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Anonymous 21w

post

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Anonymous 20w

how are you racist on accident

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Anonymous 21w

its good that you felt bad and apologized at least. still kinda wanna know how bad it was in the first place, but maybe just think about why you said it and try to unlearn that bias

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Anonymous 21w

What did you say and why did you say it?

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Anonymous 20w

i said that this guy was in a gang (white guy) and that he didn’t look like a gang member

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Anonymous

#5 21w

But really. They said don’t worry.. Maybe get her dinner and flowers.

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Anonymous

#7 20w

My friend group has all races in it. We make questionable jokes at times.. There’s a fine line between stereotypical jokes, and actual racism. 🤷‍♂️

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