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i said something a little racist to my best friend (who is black) and i don’t feel that way at all and i don’t know what was even going through my mind and now she keeps telling me im fine but i feel horrible. what can i do to make it better?
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Anonymous 22h

Depends on how bad the thing was

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Anonymous 1d

What’d u say?

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Anonymous 1d

Tell her how sincerely sorry you are and that you see her pain and how you feel

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Anonymous 19h
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Anonymous 16h

how are you racist on accident

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Anonymous 19h

its good that you felt bad and apologized at least. still kinda wanna know how bad it was in the first place, but maybe just think about why you said it and try to unlearn that bias

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Anonymous 20h

What did you say and why did you say it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

But really. They said don’t worry.. Maybe get her dinner and flowers.

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