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I’m a a girl, freshman in college and my bodycount is 5. I’m just asking if that’s considered high? I’m trying not to let peoples opinions affect me but I am afraid to be with anyone else because I don’t want it to go up more and people to judge me.
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Anonymous 18w

19 almost 20 yr old sophomore in college here! My body count is around 5 or 6, most of them being meaningless hookups with dudes from dating apps plus one of my ex’s, a fwb thing I had with one of my guy friends, and my bf. Personally I don’t see a problem with someone having a high body count as long as you’re protecting yourself and getting tested. Like #1 said it’s your actions and how you treat ppl that defines you. Your body count doesn’t make you a bad person or any less worthy of respect

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Anonymous 18w

I’m where you are rn. Not so much for other people caring but I myself like just don’t want more. Literally mine is higher than I ever thought it’d be personally so idk. Guys aren’t even judged over this but literally like I’m definitely gonna try to stay around where I’m at. Also I’m so scared of desensitization but can’t say if its like that for girls too

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Anonymous 18w

no 5 is reasonable/low

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Anonymous 18w

There was a girl when I was a freshman who said she was well over 150+

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Anonymous 18w

But she is in the loony bin now

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Anonymous 18w

ASU?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

This. Most reasonable people won’t care as long as you’re safe and respectful

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18w

Exactly! In my experience, most guys don’t care about your body count. My boyfriend knows about my history but he doesn’t judge me for it because he loves me and respects the fact that i can make my own choices

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