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I haven’t had close female friends since high school and upon reflection all of my male friends have been into me at some point. I miss the non agenda having vibe but idk how to talk to people anymore? Advice for being better socially? What do women want?
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Anonymous 2w

the right people will show up eventually, but the way I made my friends was actually thru taking a hard class and bonding over it, eventually asking to study together to form the bond outside of class, maybe that’s a trick?

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Anonymous 2w

Research what it means to socially network that should help some

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Anonymous 2w

Uh r u a guy or a girl

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Anonymous 2w

Yeah just be a fucking bitch and you’ll get a real girl with actual opinions if u don’t be a bitch and true to urself u get the bitches who don’t know what they want in life and hesitate on every hangout

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Anonymous 2w

wish i could give advice but i am in the same boat.

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Anonymous 2w

Honestly, I’d say js don’t be creepy abt things. Not saying you are but js being friendly to people in ur classes and acting like a normal human being will get you more than js female friends. I say this as I’m still learning how to make friends too but being in a club or a group and actually allowing yourself to talk to other people and be yourself helps a lot too 😋 best of luck!

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Anonymous 2w

Don’t overthink. When you meet a girl, don’t worry about texting or asking her to hangout too much because she also wants to hangout a lot too. As soon as you let those fears go, you’ll hangout a lot more than you realize. You’ll meet her friends who will eventually become your friends too

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Anonymous 2w

if ur a girl, just figure out a place where you can have a common ground/be around women (athletics, art, school, conventions, concerts) just be you and you'll find one, or if ur guy friends have girl friends talk to them to see if yall vibe; if u a guy shittt man just be normal, not flirty, friendly but not super, just someone to be comfortable around - also don't put pressure on yourself to make different gendered friends bc making friends is hard bc yall gotta be compatible at some level

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Anonymous 2w

Let’s be friends at this point

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