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anybody have a friend that you always listen to talk about their problems, but the second you start talking about yours they just kinda nod along and change the subject?
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Anonymous 1w

Ex friend. I slowly drifted away, because I realized she only talked to me to vent, not because she liked me or valued my input at all. I hope she’s doing better and she’s happy, but at the same time, i don’t miss her at all

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Anonymous 1w

definitely don't communicate about it because i just did and she's ignoring me now. just drift slowly

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Anonymous 1w

Energy vampire

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Anonymous 1w

I stopped talking to her. Expected me to drop everything for her, didn’t give the slightest fuck about me. That energy is absolutely not worth having around

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Anonymous 1w

Yea they’re called narcissists

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Anonymous 1w

Yes and it’s the most annoying thing ever and all she wants to talk about are guys like love you but idec. Plus ong get this she straight up told me that she’s not a good friend. Maybe change then??

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Anonymous 1w

lowkey had one like this. it was constant talk about her manipulative ex and her friend that she fought with all the time. she ended up ghosting me because i said “jesus was a carpenter” (sabrina reference). oddly enough, she wasn’t religious. but whatever, it is what it is. similarly to #1 i don’t have bad blood over it but I’ve moved on and could care less

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Anonymous 1w

Kind of? I feel like a lot of my problems come from her though so I don’t really talk to her about it. I told her I was sad recently (because she’s my only friend in this city and she ghosted me for 3 days because she had a guy over and then for an entire day yesterday for idk why probably a man, she doesn’t need to know this though). She said she would be there if I wanted to talk but….she can’t even handle my non-rant messages? It’s lowkey like she’s just using me as a placeholder until she

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Anonymous 1w

i think that’s common in this generation

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Anonymous 1w

That’s not your friend

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Anonymous 1w

Yeah it sucks when they’re like half your family

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Gets a boyfriend so that sucks. I don’t want to be her friend anymore but she’s my only one here ☹️

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