Friend Advice on Sidechat | Two days ago my friend asked if I’m into him and when i said “what no” he told me “sorry i was joking to lighten the mood”. Yesterday he attempted to cuddle during my panic attack (is that common practice?) Rlly not sure how to feel here.

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Friend Advice 19h

Two days ago my friend asked if I’m into him and when i said “what no” he told me “sorry i was joking to lighten the mood”. Yesterday he attempted to cuddle during my panic attack (is that common practice?) Rlly not sure how to feel here.

Anonymous 18h

It’s common practice if he’s into you

Anonymous 15h

aside from his CLEARLY romantic intentions.... you need to reevaluate ur friendships if they think its ok to try to cuddle?? when ur breaking down/ having a panic attack??

Anonymous

#1 18h

we’re both guys which is why this is throwing me off.

Anonymous

OP 18h

😂😂😂

Anonymous

OP 16h

Lmaooo does he give off gay vibes??😭

Anonymous

#4 15h

they saw your vulnerable moment and used it as an opportunity to focus on themselves. thats selfish and honestly gross

Anonymous

#4 11h

Playing the devils advocate to say maybe they thought that would be okay, bc sometimes shit like that is depicted in media? But also yeah I totally agree. I feel like anyone whos around anxious or mentally ill people know not to touch someone in distress unless it’s been agreed on. Imo weird as hell, I don’t like him doing that

Anonymous

#5 11h

honestly it’s the way he cuddled me that freaked me out. he pulled me down on top of him while he laid down on his back. i resisted a little bit bc i didn’t know what he was doing then he pulled a little bit harder and i let go. then when i realized what was happening i pushed myself off him and didn’t say anything.

Anonymous

OP 11h

I made a little 🤨😬😟 face reading that. I was picturing like, an attempt at a hug or something more standard. Your friend sounds sketchy as hell, I don’t like that at all