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How do u guys go about making new friends as a girl? I feel like it’s harder to make friends when your a girl bc if they’re all ready in a group then the don’t want u there yk?
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Anonymous 4w

Literally just talk to everyone. Put yourself out there, embarrass yourself if you have to who gives a fuck

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Anonymous 4w

join a community of some sorts like an interest group and then show up a bunch and meet new people. after you meet girls that you like there and start to form a connection, ask them to do things outside of the interest group with you!

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Anonymous 4w

Joining a club or group activity is the way to go for sure, the best way to make friends is by going through shared experiences

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Anonymous 4w

i want friends so bad but i feel like promises of making plans are so empty now

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Anonymous 4w

Joining a club or group is a great place to start! There's also an unofficial campus discord server where a lot of people find and make friends all over campus!

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Anonymous 4w

i hate making friends, worst thing ever! why can’t everyone just be friends?

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Anonymous 4w

so real

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Anonymous 4w

I’ve been here four years and have never made a friend. I’m a commuter too and I don’t have any friends from my high school. So I feel ya too. I go out of my way to do things for people and then we never hangout.

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Anonymous 4w

Try also being blind no one wants to be your friend then.

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Anonymous 4w

Ngl, the older you get, the harder it is. I just put myself out there. Randomly ask people and it goes from there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

oh, I’m totally fine embarrassing myself, and putting myself out there. I just don’t know like WHERE to meet these people you know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

it’s just situational and distance based 🙃people you see the most often even if they aren’t usually ur type of friend they will usually make best friendships

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

It’s hard when you’re a commuter and the shared dorm experience goes away. Everybody always assumes you live on campus

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

I hope you find the friends you deserve. It’s lonely out here.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Same here except I live on campus.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

what i’m saying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

literally some ppl here like act like they are giving u money talking to u

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Honestly I graduated last year so I relate in a weird way. Virtual activities help too though! I game with my friends or play D&D over the phone and that works for me

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