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What do I do if me and my friend are great when we do see each other and over text/ft, yet a lot of times when we try and make plans it’s like they find some excuse to not hang out or they just get flakey. For context we go to the same school
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Anonymous 6w

they’re just like me fr honestly idek why i flake most of the time. sometimes the bed is too comfy, sometimes i can’t stop crying, sometimes im really focused on cleaning or crafting and i just don’t want to go anymore. i don’t flake on important things but im gonna be honest if its just a casual hang out there’s like a 60/40 shot i show up. i probably will but you never know

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Anonymous 6w

Hate to say it but they may be a fake friend. They’ll be great to you over the phone or in person but they don’t want to waste their time hanging out with you, and if that’s the case, don’t waste your time trying to get them to. Find better friends who care and want your company.

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