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No matter how confident I become, I always default back to feeling insecure after hanging with “friends.” why am I perpetually in middle school ?
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Anonymous 7h

A lot of people feel the same way. Just keep yourself occupied. Start making assignments for yourself, draw, read, create, keep yourself busy. I don't know exactly what you're going through but nowadays most of us are blessed with so much and we don't even realize it because we keep comparing everything. Appreciate yourself more.

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Anonymous 1d

… what makes you insecure?

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Anonymous 10h

Comfort takes time. And the right people. Has anything they’ve done made you feel rejected? And do you feel like that’s something you should learn to live with or move on from, or if it’s indicative of a greater pattern/sign they don’t like you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

That I’m too much, missed social cues, did somtn . It’s the overthinking after that reminds me of middle school where I used to overthink during 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Did somtn wrong **

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Long story short, no one is thinking about you in any way. Everyone is too worried about how they come off to people (including you).

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