Healthy boundaries are actually not selfish. Keep making healthy choices, my friend.

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Same. Then people judge me for being selfish and self centered.

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Just cut them off I did it and was sad for a day but oh well fuck me over once and it’s over (knew this person for 3 years)

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I try to be nice and easy going but a few weeks ago my friend said to me while we were drunk that I’m “easy to manipulate” and I was like “are you deadass rn”

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Being a nice person isn’t conditional on the behaviour of others. This doesn’t mean let others take advantage of you, we need to be wise, but don’t let others change who you are and steal your happiness. Their behaviour says more about them than you so it’s they who need to change, not you. If they don’t want to change then best to distance yourself from them.

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i hope this means like not having sympathy for people who don’t need it and not being kind to strangers..

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It’s so real you give ur all just to get stabbed

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