Friend Advice on Sidechat | I have this friend I met in my first quarter of college and the dudes fun af to hang out with but he’s often out with his friends from his hometown who also go to our school. I want to join them but how do i do that without just intruding?

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Friend Advice 6d

I have this friend I met in my first quarter of college and the dudes fun af to hang out with but he’s often out with his friends from his hometown who also go to our school. I want to join them but how do i do that without just intruding?

Anonymous 5d

youll hear this all the time and it sounds like terrible advice but it genuinely works: just show up. start talking to them. stand there awkwardly and nod along. its gonna feel like intruding at first but eventually youll integrate yourself. this coming from an introvert whos STILL hella introverted but ALSO has hella friends. it SUCKS but itll be worth it.

Anonymous

#1 5d

definitely this, but also make sure the rest of the group is cool with you 😭 some people aren’t open to people joining in

Anonymous

#2 5d

Yea that’s what I was worried about😓