Anonymous #1 16h

One I said I don’t got feelings for her anymore… also stop being a dick, I’m allowed to be upset on the fact that she lied to me about wanting to be friends

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Anonymous OP 16h

Who cares bro, know how many friends and gfs I lost in my life? All of them. Bitches ain’t shit who cares what they think. If they stay then cool if not then fuck em

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Anonymous #1 16h

I mean that’s fair but it’s still a fucking process which hurts me… it’s not something I’m gonna get over right away sadly, we were super close for awhile

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Anonymous OP 16h

Who was the last one to initiate plans

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Anonymous #1 16h

Last time we hung out it was her, I invited her to something this weekend but she said she couldn’t and convos have been less and less

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Anonymous OP 16h

Well I’m a guy so can’t relate to a girl friendship, but also there’s not much u can do if it happens it just happens u know, it shouldn’t be rocket science. if nothing I’d reach out in a month or two saying what’s up wanna grab a coffee or hit it head on and say how u feel abt everything if u didn’t already.

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Anonymous #1 16h

Thanks man, it’s def an adjustment cause she’s sorta seeing someone else, so it’s hard to go from talking all day to barely talking or seeing each other

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Anonymous OP 16h

If that’s the case then she made her choice but seeing someone shouldn’t stop from being friends or w/e, maybe it was getting too close and becoming too much. Ppl come and go in this world friend, can’t get attached to anyone it sucks

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Anonymous #2 12h

That’s fair, but she’s making it worse ngl

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Anonymous #1 12h

Stop fucking projecting your experiences onto someone else. You’re confusing emotional maturity with emotional detachment. Just because you’ve lost people doesn’t mean everyone has to process loss the way you do. OP can accept the situation and still be hurt by it. That’s called being human. And telling people not to get attached isn’t the profound advice you think it is 🤡

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Anonymous OP 11h

I understand, she may not realize that tho or frankly just may not know what to or how to behave now, ya know? She may be hesitant about what she says or does to not possibly upset you

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Anonymous #2 11h

Yeah that’s fair, I’m just gunna have to talk to her about it

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Anonymous OP 10h

I think that’s best

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Anonymous #2 10h

I know it is but I don’t wanna hear that she don’t wanna be friends with me if that’s what she thinks, that will crush me

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