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POV you live with 3 besties and you’re the random: 💔🧎‍♀️‍➡️😥 How do I even become their friend?
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Anonymous 4w

tell them that

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Anonymous 4w

I would just try and hangout more outside of your room in the common areas, don’t hide in your room, ask them to go on errands with you, go out to eat, maybe make a family dinner. just try to be involved more with them. don’t make them feel bad about already being friends with one another bc it’s no one’s fault. all you can do is at least try to bond with them

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Anonymous 4w

Maybe propose a game or movie night to get to know them better and they may start to include you in going out more. If they decline, it’s not worth it - move on and know your worth!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I am always in common areas and I asked them but they’re super busy so they can’t make time to go out. I’ve tried going out with them on weekends multiple times but we only got to a little bit of talking after the hang so I feel like that’s not making any differences- like we talk and I know good amount about them now but we don’t seem to be getting close.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I did and they said we should hang but then they never talk about the actual plan to hang after that 😩

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