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My friends keep doing this thing where they hang out without me and then invite me to join halfway through. I don't know why and I hate feeling like an afterthought. Every time I talk about it they just say I'm not entitled to their time. What do I do?
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Anonymous 2w

*continue NO NEGOTIATION WHATSOEVER. BE DIRECT. BE CALM. BE KIND.

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Anonymous 2w

This happening once or twice is one thing, but as a pattern like this it’s kinda heartbreaking. I don’t really like your friends

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Anonymous 2w

Bitch this happened to me and they all FaceTimed me while they were there. Made me want to cry. Anyway, I’m not friends with any of them anymore, so that might be a sign for you. They sound like they just don’t like you, and so honestly fuck them. Same thing happened to me. It sucks but it gets better.

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Anonymous 2w

You tell them since you are not entitled to their time then so are they. Good friends, true mature friends dont treat each other like that. You can either text and talk to them: Hey, i just want to be direct with something. Ive mentioned before about you inviting me halfway through. As your friend, i woukd appreciate it if I wasnt an afterthought. I dont want this to happen again and i appreciate our friendship so pls respect this. Then see how they respond. If they apologize you go along.

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