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Im worried that me and my bsf of 8 years are gonna grow apart. I love her a lot. But she’s becoming a loser and is very depressed and unambitious
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Anonymous 1w

Aw don’t call her a loser if she’s becoming depressed, support her

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Anonymous 1w

R u saying shes becoming a loser because she’s depressed and thereby unambitious

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Anonymous 1w

Was she a loser before she was depressed? If not, it’s not fair to say that when she’s struggling

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Anonymous 1w

Using the word loser here raises a lot more questions for me about *you* than it does for her. Why do you call her that?

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Anonymous 1w

If it’s meant to be, let it be. Some people will grow apart. That’s life You can always reconnect a few years later and check in.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Because thats what she’s becoming and im not one to sugar coat shit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah but WHAT makes her a loser in your eyes lmao

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