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Why are people so flaky? I genuinely feel sad because we made plans weeks in advance just for them to always cancel last minute. I understand that people are busy but this happens to me a lot
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Anonymous 15h

when you make plans way too advanced then people forget about it and other shit comes up. try to be a little more closer to the plan date or last minute go with the flow type of plans

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Anonymous 14h

That does suck! Like I do agree people can get busy. But if this is a thing that happens a lot id have a lil chat with them if you’re comfortable with that! ❤️

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Anonymous 11h

Not sure why other people flake but personally I get this crazy amount of anxiety right before I do something with other people. Or I get a headache, muscle pain, an assignment I forgot, etc etc. I don’t like to cancel plans and disappoint people, though, so I just decline upfront. :’)

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Anonymous 7h

I had friends do this to me on my birthday two years ago. Only time I ever celebrated my birthday since I was 15 because I hate my bday and my two best friends bailed on me :)

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Anonymous 8h

I just have anxiety

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Anonymous 4h

Dam that sux

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

The thing is though I check in with them closer and closer to the date and then the day of they cancel

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