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was 99% sure my friend lied to me about smth minor, and I was doing mental backflips to figure out how she could’ve just—not known? but it made no sense unless she did, so I asked her, and apparently I misinterpreted everything and hurt her feelings… yay
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Anonymous 1d

asked another friend abt what to do since it was bothering me, and she said to just ask about it, and now I feel like a complete dumbass and like my first friend doesn’t like me as much anymore because I thought she lied- idk, I was told to communicate but communicating made me feel like an ass. maybe I did it wrong but idfk how

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Anonymous 21h

Be totally honest with her and TALK. You were both upset because clearly you’re important to one another. That’s why you were hurt and confused because you didn’t think she would lie to you, it’s why it was important enough to you to tell her, and it’s why she’s now upset. Hug it out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

she’s sending me fetish art again so I think she’s not upset with me anymore LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

but thank you for the advice.. I kind of just hung out with our friend group (including her) and talked normally. I’m pretty sure I accidentally accused her (“you lied to me”) instead of asking “did you lie to me” and failed to clarify that I believed her when she said she didn’t lie. so treating her the same showed that I wasn’t also upset with her, so she probs realized it was a miscommunication. ik what not to do next time at least lol

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