Friend Advice on Sidechat | I(f20) have a job offer in the town my bf(m20) lives in, and no job offers in my hometown for the summer. My parents think it’s not smart for me to go bc I won’t save as much money. I’m still looking for jobs at home but it’s rough.

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Friend Advice 22w

I(f20) have a job offer in the town my bf(m20) lives in, and no job offers in my hometown for the summer. My parents think it’s not smart for me to go bc I won’t save as much money. I’m still looking for jobs at home but it’s rough.

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Anonymous 22w

A caring partner would want to help preserve a positive relationship with your parents. As long as your parents are healthy people, I have no reason to believe that they aren’t. It is fun to get to spend time with someone you’re dating, I understand the struggle between the two. I’m just wondering if you will be working enough to make it worth your time in another town -will you have any free time?

Anonymous 22w

I don’t want to disappoint either. I’m worried if I go I’ll strain me and my parents relationship but if I don’t go then im disappointing my partner (we’ve been dating almost two years btw) and also myself. I genuinely don’t know what to do.

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#1 22w

I will, I even told the company I’m working for that I need the weekend of the 4th of July off so I can go home to my family but I’ll be working almost every day other than that

Anonymous 22w

I’d be living with him, and he wouldn’t make me pay rent but I would help out with groceries and other things around the place so I’m not dead weight- there’s a good public transit system but I could also bike sound pretty easily.

Anonymous 22w

I do think they believe I haven’t been trying and I have. It took me 6 months just to find a job in my college town so they know how hard it is but they just don’t really care?? I think they think I’m lying or something and that kind of makes me mad because I’m never been the kind of person to not try for something or lie about trying it because I don’t want to do it