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Am I in the wrong for defriending my best friend of 4 years for getting with my crush of 3 years knowing full truth how I felt about him? Everyone keeps saying that I was in the right but I miss my best friend even though she did that.
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Anonymous 2w

crush of three years? so you had three years to make a move and she beat you to it.

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Anonymous 2w

tbh no i would do the same, did she say anything when it happened?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

that’s true too😭 but best friend for 4 years and pulling that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

She first told me about him holding her waist and then going to a concert but then later she kept posting about him on her private story being like “he has my earring in his wallet to remember me 🤭” and then she just tells me “oh things just happened”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I guess but I’m not his type at all I’ve tried when I first started liking him but I failed miserably because I didn’t know how to flirt with guys at the time. So we stayed as friends only but I kept liking him. I cried to my best friend about him and how he’ll never like me and how it’ll never work because I’m clearly not his type.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yea that rly sucks tho and i’m sorry your friend did that cause that is rly sh!tty

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i’m sorry girl :( def not a friend to keep around. i feel like these r the types of actions that lead to bigger one yk, good u got out now. when they’re dismissive and just say stuff like oh things just happened, she knows she is in the wrong. and based on what u said she posted and stuff she seems very boy crazy like throw her friends under the bus for a boy vibes😭

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