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Is it messed up to tell my friend to not send me so many videos?
11 upvotes, 9 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Friend Advice. "Is it messed up to tell my friend to not send me so many videos?"
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Anonymous 9w

I got 65 TikToks from them within the past 3 hours. That’s SO MUCH!! And I’m a busy person, I don’t always have the time to actually watch all these when I get over 100 per day.

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Anonymous 9w

You’re not an asshole. That’s a LOT. 20 would be too much for me personally but that many? You have to tell her. Tell you your appreciate her thinking of you, and you like the proof of it, but you really don’t have the time/energy to watch through all of them and you don’t want her to feel ignored by you not saying that

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Anonymous 9w

I knew this was a girl before clicking on the post

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Anonymous 9w

Yes

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Anonymous 9w

Well she could just be not realizing it with the scrolling, I have been at that point when I was on the app (deleted socials now) where I’d send over 50 in the span of that time without realizing. Just talk to her about it 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

But I feel like I’d be an asshole if I say that to her, I don’t want her to think I’m too busy for her, I’m just too busy for TikTok.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Makes me wonder how man I send out ngl 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

If she isn't even realizing it and is sending over 60 videos she needs actual help😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Also good on you!!!!!

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