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My friend told me he knew I was into him and I confirmed it. We were drunk and he then told me why it wouldn’t work and finally said he didn’t like me. Now he told his gf and we can’t hangout, but he still talks to me openly. Im lost as to what he’s doing
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Anonymous 3w

There’s nothing wrong with being friendly. Sure, if you only talk to him because you’re into him, that’s different. But ideally you can hang out with both of them as a couple because you are friends with the couple and not the individual.

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Anonymous 3w

If he has a gf then leave him alone. If he likes you then he would leave her for you. But personally I wouldn't trust someone who would openly talk to ppl he knows has feelings for him while being in a relationship cuz that creates the possibility of him talking to others while being in a relationship with you.

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Anonymous 3w

Stop talking to him so he misses you and realizes your worth

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Anonymous 3w

I get both ur sides tbh. You can be friends and have feelings but also that can be uncomfortable for anybody especially someone in a relationship

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