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My university is doing an online speed dating thing and I was like “I’m interested but I don’t want to give people the wrong idea, I can easily be mistaken for skinny” and I got multiple DMs going “nooo ur not fat” and then I told them that I’m 300 pounds
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Anonymous 5w

One went “I disagree” and I fr think they think I’m a size 2 with severe body dysmorphia??? I’m just fat and upfront about it dude. And the other was just like “ok”. Both haven’t responded further after that. I really should just remove men from my dating pool 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous 5w

Damn. Let me guess did they all block you the second you told them that? Because mfs are so shallow like that

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Anonymous 5w

Update: both chats disappeared so I’m now wondering if they were the same guy who didn’t realize I was the same commenter in that thread lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> nanners 5w

No, read my comment below 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Weight doesn’t matter as long as you have a good personality that should be the main focus

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

You’d think, but unfortunately the world works differently. 🫠

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Oh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

God damn. Yeah not gonna lie some of us just suck. And it’s way too many too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

That sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Wish the world put more emphasis on character in addition to looks because looks do not indicate ones character

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Anonymous replying to -> nanners 5w

For real! I have so much love to give and so much to share with someone, but no one wants it because of everything else about me. Like: I get that I have issues and I’m not perfect. But being fat, disabled, and disinterested in sex really shouldn’t be such a huge disqualifier (to the point where I’m in my mid-20s and haven’t even been on a date before 😬) from finding a partner.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I can now confirm that they blocked me lol. You were right, Nanners!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I can relate a lot to that. I’m a heavier fella myself, early 20s and not super focused on sex or anything. Never been on a proper date either lol I’m just tryna vibe with someone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Oh damn that sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

But trust me there’s still hope! You’ll find your person I believe it

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