
I’m ngl as somebody who is an equal opportunity shipper, I understand where f/f people are coming from but they are totally going about it in the wrong way. I think the thing is that while yes a lot of people fetishize m/m, touting f/f as “purer” is just as sexist. There are definitely biases in how series can be about female main characters but the most popular ships will be male, an there’s also a conversation to be had about how most female characters are genuinely worse written than male.
Also, tons of fujoshis are lesbians or otherwise queer women, so just reducing it to “cishet women are misogynists” is not true. I have just given up on western media for f/f and only look for it in anime. I really don’t like how most female characters are written and I find more compelling relationships in series where all the characters are female. Still feel like male series get to be more mature while female are less high stakes, but it is what it is.