Family Rants on Sidechat | I reached out to my aunt on my dad’s side and she started talking about how good of a father he is to his children. It’s 8 of us and I’m the oldest and he’s a deadbeat to me but not my other siblings. It hurts and I wonder what I did to not deserve a dad.

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I reached out to my aunt on my dad’s side and she started talking about how good of a father he is to his children. It’s 8 of us and I’m the oldest and he’s a deadbeat to me but not my other siblings. It hurts and I wonder what I did to not deserve a dad.

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Anonymous 6w

His issues are his issues, you know? You are his child & the relationship is on him. Accepting that it’s him & not you is so hard to do, but when you do accept that reality, you allow yourself to be happy 💗

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