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Anybody else lowkengenuinely get hit for crying as a kid or that was just me

1395 upvotes, 46 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Family Rants. "Anybody else lowkengenuinely get hit for crying as a kid or that was just me"

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Anonymous 2w

I got punished for showing any type of emotion when I was getting yelled at for something.

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Anonymous 2w

and it didn't work I still cry at everything! thanks dad!

Anonymous 2w

Yuuuuup the whole “I’ll give you smth to cry abt” shit

Anonymous 2w

My mom is autistic in the sounds way and she did what any unmedicated undiagnosed autistic parent would do. Can’t blame her, but I will make sure it never happens to my kids, maybe I’ll go crazy and protect everyone I can

Anonymous 2w

my parents weren’t abusive like most but my mom hit me a couple times and i remember this one specific memory of her hitting me when i was laying crying on the floor trying to get away from her

Anonymous 2w

Lmao yesssss me too like why would you hit a kid until they cry then hit them for crying?? Girl that’s your own damn fault?????

Anonymous 2w

I got pushed into the open dishwasher for asking what I did wrong because i genuinely didn’t know lmao

Anonymous 2w

I got hit and told i ruined their life

Anonymous 2w

“Stop crying or I’ll give you something to cry about” 🥀

Anonymous 2w

My dad once woke me up by kicking me in the stomach across the room because he thought I, a 12 year old, tried to make him look bad in front of two random priests. Better than the time he dumped trash from a dustpan on me when I was sleeping. Good times.

Anonymous 2w

Yep and now I not know how express my emotions when my parents hit me for anything 😅

Anonymous 2w

Like…sad crying? No. My parents were…pretty progressive considering their own family dynamics and political opinions 😅 now, crying because I was being punished? For sure. I heard a lot of “stop crying or I’ll give you something to cry about” which was usually followed by me crying more just to see what would happen…typically being spanked 😂

Anonymous 2w

Mexican mom things "quieres que te de algo para llorar" headass

Anonymous 2w

Yea, and she havin another kid to make up for that ig😭

Anonymous 2w

“i’ll give you something to cry about” 💀

Anonymous 2w

“stop crying or i’ll give you sum to cry abt” after literally beating my ssa😭😭

Anonymous 2w

Only when my aunt pulled at my sensitive scalp when doing my hair and it made me cry. Maybe other times too. Can’t remember, to many people honestly.

Anonymous 2w

I was beat by my dad almost every other day once he got home from work because my mom would tell him how “bad” I was while he was gone. The worst it’s ever gotten was when he smacked me so hard in the face he knocked me out. It was in front of my mom and she didn’t even do anything. I was about 10 or 11.

Anonymous 2w

i wasn’t hit but we were scolded for being selfish when we cried

Anonymous

#1 2w

That’s terrible that it happened idk what makes a grown adult want to hit a kid so bad

Anonymous

#2 2w

Yeah they would yell at me, I would cry, then they would yell at me more to stop crying

Anonymous

#2 2w

I got in trouble for showing emotion period then they’d hit me bitchass adults

Anonymous

#5 2w

Yeah you’re gonna wanna remove yourself from that seeing them treat the next ones good is a whole new type of rage

Anonymous

#6 2w

You got some villains in your life

Anonymous

#7 2w

Hope you know you didn’t 🫶🏻

Anonymous

#4 2w

They just didn’t want to hear the proof of them being in the wrong ig

Anonymous

#8 2w

In fact I think I cry even more now!

Anonymous

#9 2w

yeppp 😕😕

Anonymous

#8 2w

Hopefully it feels redeeming rather than guilty now

Anonymous

#10 2w

No offense to you but fuck your dad bro hope things are better for you now

Anonymous

OP 2w

sometimes im still guilty, but it's at least not all the time. Sometimes it feels really nice

Anonymous

#8 2w

Just know crying is rarely if ever an invalid reaction you can reaction to anything in the way that makes you feel better

Anonymous

#7 2w

omg twins!! hope you’re doing better now <33

Anonymous

OP 2w

It was my dad, he was on pain meds at the time. He’s gotten way better and our relationship is decent now that I’ve been moved out for a few years.

Anonymous

#5 2w

yours too? 🫩

Anonymous

OP 2w

my sibling and I are only 3 years apart but they treat them sm better and I’m happy that my sibling isn’t getting traumatized but it makes me angry that they couldn’t have been like that for me

Anonymous

#14 2w

That was normally my case or getting popped

Anonymous

#18 2w

I’m sorry you had to go through that no one deserves that shit especially a kid

Anonymous

#18 2w

I can never forgive the moms that just stand by and watch their kids be hurt it’s ridiculous no matter the situation

Anonymous

#19 2w

LITERALLY 😭

Anonymous

#1 2w

They were abusive like most, abuse is abuse don’t compare

Anonymous

#21 2w

Justifying abuse is weird. You absolutely CAN blame her and as someone with autism. I’m criticizing her completely.

Anonymous

#24 2w

Maybe don’t tell an abused person how they handle it is weird.

Anonymous

OP 2w

Idc how they handle it, justifying it is weird.

Anonymous

#24 2w

That’s still their mom you have to realize not everyone is at the point in healing you might be at and straight up calling them weird for it isn’t helpful

Anonymous

#24 2w

I’ll put it better, I won’t blame my mother, because I understand her and I love her. I’ll continue to encourage her how I can. I was speaking personally, there may be cases in which there should be blame and even legal repercussion on the basis of undiagnosed (but harmfully symptomatic) child-rearing practices. Thanks for coming to me defense OP, and 24 I totally hear you, I criticize my mom too sometimes but that’s my lil baby boo fr 🤤 moomoo 🤰I get mad then remember like damn wait she’s moo