
Hi OP, I agree as a guy. I have female friends because I stayed a virgin by choice. My guy friends became bros that did not align with my beliefs. From my experiences from my female friends is that they do want long term and the guys want hookups. The issue is that the women want to fix guys which is where the source of the drama is. They give a guy a chance but the men hurt them. I mean it’s a good deed to help people but a lot of guys don’t appreciate it.