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my parents have done a lot to hurt me in the past. sometimes i think they don’t realize how much they have done (or what) my question is do i tell them? im 21 and they have asked a few times but it never felt genuine. it feels like if i say it…(comments)
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Anonymous 2w

it will turn into a bigger fight. i’m worried that if i saw all this they will feel really bad about themselves, realize how poor they did during my childhood and one of my points may even make them question their marriage. i know i have hid everything for so long so like why say it now. but i’m struggling big time. and i wrote a (short) list of a few of the reasons which takes up 3 pages of a google doc. so i need someone’s opinion. do i tell them knowing it may shift the dynamic of everything?

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Anonymous 2w

and i don’t want them to get divorced (i don’t think this would cause it) but some of my points may show how much i know about their relationship that they tried to hide from me. and may prove to them that nothing is working for them

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