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I’m turning 21 years old tomorrow and I’m getting dinner with my boyfriend the day after because he works on my bday and my family is making all these judgements about him and haven’t even met him yet and now they may not let me go to this dinner. Help
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Anonymous 11w

You’re 21, go to the fucking dinner

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Anonymous 11w

That sucks OP. But you could say something like: “he picked up that extra shift solely so he could take me to a nicer restaurant”. I can’t see your family being “mad” at that

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Anonymous 11w

Tell them you are an adult and can make decisions independent of them

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Anonymous 11w

yea you’re 21 just go to the dinner

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Anonymous 11w

ur 21 why are you even questioning 😭

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Anonymous 11w

That’s a really stupid reason to make judgments, do what you want and they can deal with it it’s not like they’re dating them

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Anonymous 11w

Gurl ur 21 fuck what ur parents say

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Anonymous 11w

let them meet him

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Anonymous 11w

I’m sure your parents have had similar situations happen to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Yeah I hate to agree but 21… girl if you don’t just leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

You’d be surprised, if they’re trying to tell them at 21 not to go they probably try to control everything

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