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why does my mother play the victim every time she does something that makes me upset like just take accountability that what you did sucks, apologize, and we can move on
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Anonymous 1w

lol my mom just did the same thing. Ive kinda just accepted the fact she’s emotionally immature and realized i just need to be the bigger person and be patient. She gave birth to me, took care of me, and raised me growing up so ig it’s part of my way of trying to pay her back. We’ll alll die soon enough, whatever, so I might as well be nice and just deal with her antics while appreciating the more likable aspects of her personality

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Anonymous 1w

some people cant imagine a world where they are at fault. people naturally have a tendency to believe they are good people and are quick to dismiss their own faults (some people are more socially aware than others) so when theyre confronted with a reality where they are the ‘villain’ they are more comfortable with taking offense to the accusation than seeing things from the other persons pov. basically she lacks emotional intelligence when it comes to understanding others.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’ve kinda just dropped expectations and built her being rude and trying to ragebait me into my model mental model of her tbh. It’s kinda like a game now

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