
lol my mom just did the same thing. Ive kinda just accepted the fact she’s emotionally immature and realized i just need to be the bigger person and be patient. She gave birth to me, took care of me, and raised me growing up so ig it’s part of my way of trying to pay her back. We’ll alll die soon enough, whatever, so I might as well be nice and just deal with her antics while appreciating the more likable aspects of her personality
some people cant imagine a world where they are at fault. people naturally have a tendency to believe they are good people and are quick to dismiss their own faults (some people are more socially aware than others) so when theyre confronted with a reality where they are the ‘villain’ they are more comfortable with taking offense to the accusation than seeing things from the other persons pov. basically she lacks emotional intelligence when it comes to understanding others.