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My dad is so misgynistic. He indirectly slut shames me whenever i leave the house or hang out with friends even tho theyre just girls too. He also expects fresh food to be ready as soon as he comes home even tho im busy and may not be home.
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Anonymous 16h

i literally did everything he asked me to before he left and now hes mad i didnt do more than he asked (ex he asked me to sweep which i did then he got mad i didnt mop)

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Anonymous 16h

And then he calls me crazy for “roaming around” (i just went to one place) and for not having food ready (he doesnt even ask me to make anything before hand, just expects it to be ready. i dont even know when hes coming home or whatever)

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Anonymous 16h

I’m so sorry this is happening to you, wishing you the best!

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Anonymous 12h

We’re living the same life. The ideology is so backwards. But you’ve js gotta turn the other cheek and leave a fool in his folly.

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Anonymous 14h

2 and 3 needa get off twitter

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Anonymous 2h

my dad is the exact same way. This is rooted in misogyny, don’t listen to the comments telling you it’s not. My dad expects to have the whole house clean with dinner on the table by the time he comes home for work. He never cleans, never sets foot in the kitchen, expects to have every meal made for him, doesn’t do his own laundry, and sits all day after work watching youtube while we slave over a hot stove.

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Anonymous 7h

Doesn’t sound misogynistic. Sounds like a normal dad

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Anonymous 15h

He’s not slut shaming you for no reason surely👀

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Anonymous 16h

Are you banging guys tho? Leaving that out

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

Nah ts doesn’t happen for absolutely no reason or they are being a lil overdramatic

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

That’s like saying a random guy who you don’t know shot you, and then I say to you. “Oh well you deserved it probably because people don’t shoot people for no reason.” Or “nah you’re being dramatic he didn’t shoot you.” … like what…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12h

It’s very unlikely and rare you get shot for no reason…

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12h

These girls hoe around then mad when they face the consequences 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12h

I don’t think killing people is on the same level as hoeing around 😭😭like what

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

so did you just not listen to any of the examples related to cleaning and cooking and zero men?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2h

it’s not misogynistic to expect a woman to cook and clean all day when she has other shit she wants to do? to tie all her worth to her having dinner ready on the table and expecting her to be able to miraculously read your mind to know what you want? If this is a “normal dad”, men need to be better. This is exhausting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2h

Omg more whining 😒 who would’ve expected that

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2h

“Sits all day after work watching yt while we slave over a hot stove”. What a monster

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2h

he won’t ever even tell us what he wants to eat, he just expects us to guess what he wants every time and will be really mad if we make him something he doesn’t like. I haven’t seen him cook since i was about six, and i remember thinking I didn’t even know boys could cook. I didn’t even think that was an option because I had never seen it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2h

My little brother was also highly discouraged by my dad from helping my mom and my sisters and I in the kitchen or while cleaning, being told it was a woman’s job. and now he struggles with basic life skills like doing dishes, making dinner besides box Mac n cheese, and general cleaning. Patriarchy hurts men too. Sorry for the long comments, I think it’s a pretty common situation unfortunately. 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1h

yeah maybe that’s not the worst thing in the world, but you can see how that would be really fucking annoying when the work you’ve been doing all day isn’t taken as seriously since it was done at home. Also, you picked THAT sentence out of everything else I said, maybe you just don’t have the ability to read? Did you read the part where I said he does absolutely nothing and yells at us if we get something wrong? How he believes women belong inside?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1h

My dad has come home from work and thrown chairs, drawers, etc around because he’s mad about dinner. Not at us but close. He’s screamed until he’s red in the face because he didn’t like how his asparagus was cooked. Is that not misogyny? Should we have to put up with that? Is that “normal dad” stuff like you said in your other comment?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1h

low tier ragebait 👎

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1h

It’s not ragebait I’m just tired of you guys relentlessly with this stuff it’s exhausting Like wut. I just don’t read it. I get what I said made you angry but you really don’t have to say anything. Especially not at me. I don’t care

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1h

you know what is exhausting? essentially being chained to the goddamn stove all day and getting no thanks for it. not being able to leave the house because I have to do a grown man’s chores.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1h

would’ve honestly been better if u had just said it was ragebait lowkey. might’ve had a better opinion of you if u were able to craft up such an annoying comment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1h

OMG shutup loser what did I just say tell someone who cares or matters your bs has nothing to do with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1h

Bro can’t shutup about it. And here, you want to downvote me for not wanting to eat your slop complaining and whining and telling you the truth you asked for, fine you can have downvotes too on all your woe is me narrative victim mentality

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