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Advice please. I feel like I never have conversations with my mom and she never understands the fact that me saying she only lectures me does not equal me saying I don’t need to be lectured but rather I wish we would have actual conversations. It’s always
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Anonymous 2w

Her giving me a lesson and me just having to sit there. She thinks it’s me being stubborn and stuck in my ways when I ask questions but I’ve explained to her that that’s not my thinking I just want to understand better. At times she’ll just ignore me when I’m trying to resolve an issue with her if she thinks I’m being stubborn. She says the tone I use with her matters but whether I yell or talk softly she doesnt listen. I honestly think she’s really immature wanting to give me the silent

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Anonymous 2w

That’s literally me with my dad. He is determined to only address me while lecturing me 🙄🙄🙄 it’s annoying asf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Treatment all the time. How can I make her understand me better?

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