
Whenever I’d defend her I’d get into trouble and told I’m not her parent and mom would tell her not to listen to me. She’s 14 now and treats me like sh*t & it hurts a bit bc I was there when she needed things I had to grow up to help her I had to make sure she was watched when we went out like a 24/7 babysitter so much so that it became an issue when I wanted alone time. I needed to force myself to push her away so I could have me time but was punished for not wanting her around
Today she couldn’t find something so she flipped out and threw things in her room and dad said some people just don’t have brains (she’s got adhd) and I said nothing bc it’s easier not to get involved but then I told mom what happened and she got mad at me bc how I said it & said she’s got nothing but disrespectful kids but nothing about her child bring hold she’s got no brains and I’m like I wish I had the money to just go away or go back in time and raise her the right way, my way