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how talking to my mom genuinely makes me feel
1948 upvotes, 24 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Family Rants. "how talking to my mom genuinely makes me feel"
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Anonymous 4w
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Anonymous 4w

Same here. Love my mom but she’s driven me to some of the darkest holes I’ve ever been in.

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Anonymous 4w

Literally, especially rn cause she’s been begging me for months to be honest with her about my feelings about her and I finally did it last week and now’s she’s acting like I told her that I hope she dies or something

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Anonymous 4w

she can’t go 10 minutes without talking about her Lord and savior Donald Trump

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Anonymous 4w

yall got some terrible parents in these comments we can share my mom she's great and makes really good banana bread

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Anonymous 4w

Lowkey my mom is the coolest person I know can’t really relate with yall. Best part of my moms day was lunch with my mom

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Anonymous 4w

I don’t love either of my parents, they are both narcissists and possibly sociopaths. My biggest regret is never taking them to court when a university employee told me I could. And I guarantee if I had the means I could have taken them to court as a kid a won. Just because a person is a parent doesn’t mean they love their kid and it’s absurd to expect a kid to give such parents love.

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Anonymous 4w

No fr

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Anonymous 4w

Talking to my dad

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Anonymous 4w

send her to me — daddy will work her out!

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Anonymous 4w

Maotherfuckers nobody understands emotions here? You can’t handle your mom’s emotions and you call yourself mature men or women. Emotions grow with age. Y’all will understand all this for sure, but when u urself become parents and take the individual identity in ur asses. Like bruh, she literally sees u as a part of herself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

The worst thing you can do with your mom is be emotionally honest

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Literally and I hate that I can’t just cut her off cause I’d look contact with two of my siblings

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Same!! My mom complained about me not being open with her, but when I did she acted like i just told her she’s the worst mother ever and then told me I could go stay with my dad (parents divorced)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Nah she just has the emotional range of a 12 year old. Everyone’s parents are different tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Bro that’s how it goes 🥹🥺if you’re like a happy go lucky type person, they say the older you get the more childlike u get. Saying this sweetly not arrogantly or sarcastically

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

that is exactly the problem. she should not see me as a part of herself, because i am my own person and not just her opportunity to do life over again. i’m making choices that she never would, but that’s my prerogative and i’m not objectively wrong for not being her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

i’m glad you have a good relationship with her! i got lucky because my best friend’s mom has basically adopted me at this point, i love yapping with her and she gives great advice. i just wish my bio mom wasn’t evil

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yes yes I’m not saying imposing is correct, I’m just asking all my brothers and sisters of America here to just understand that why r they doing what they are doing and half of the mom issues would vanish. As children, we can never understand the depth of parental love (there r always exceptions, some moms are genuinely not nice but at least or more than 95% are) We will only understand it after we become parents. I don’t have it in me to explain more than that,just wanted to make a few mom-kid

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Just wanted to make some mom-kids relation better🙂‍↔️🥹, cuz the pain is too much when someone has good intentions for you but isn’t able to translate it in such a way that it matches ur personality cheers feelas night!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

it’s not the kids’ responsibility to try and be understanding of parents who cannot be bothered to listen to their children and love them how they wish to be loved.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

👍🏻👍🏻ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

I don’t think “understanding” is the issue with my mom telling me she was gonna put my dog down because she thought she was annoying that day

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Listen I get what you’re trying to say but I don’t think my mom beating me and allowing me to go hungry everyday was me misunderstanding her feelings, those are her responsibilities, not mine

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