
Ngl Op you’re coming off a bit out of touch. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to save up for nice things but do make sure you’ve got your basics (and savings) covered FIRST. You never know what could happen. Sounds like she may be a few years older so her caution isn’t hypocritical. She may be speaking from experience. And so am I as someone who was making 6 figs and lost my job 9 months ago. If I’d jumped to luxuries instead of saving and living below my means I’d be fucked now.