How did you guys learn to cope with how your parents like deny you, oppose you, don‘t acknowledge anything you do or achieve, only sees your flaws and hounce at them every chance and the fact that they‘re biologically in your mind supposed to supportive
You have to limit or cut contact and find your own family. Surround yourself with people who do support you and celebrate your successes
12
Anonymous4w
Gotta realize this is your life dude. As much as you might care about their opinion you have to think about yourself.
9
Anonymous4w
Distance yourself and make your future and if you plan to have kids the future for your kids, your goal in life use them as motivation to reach all of your dreams
6
Anonymous4w
smile and bust their chops. example; mom complains your room is dirty. tell her you’ll fire the maid.
if they’re nitpicking the worst thing is to play into it. don’t take it seriously, crack a joke and move on.
3
Anonymous4w
I deal with the same shit op. I gotta come to terms with it too. You can dm me if you need somebody to talk to
1
Anonymousmother_russia4w
Yes surrounding yourself with likeminded and uplifting individuals is the most important part