
Explained he’s always been borderline abusive and I’ll respect him as a father but he should have no expectation for me to be his friend or to have enjoyed spending time with him while growing up. Yes I turned out OK and still visit 2/3 times a year but I have no interest in him as a person due to how he treated my mother, my siblings, and I. He’s never apologized and I’ll tolerate him around the holidays for family sake, but it ends there.