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Family Rants 4w
FUCK MAN. I’m so done with my mom. I thought I was in a better place mentally where I could deal with her, but she’s the worst person in my life.
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Anonymous 4w

The next time she “threatens” to send us to live with family in FL, I’ll GLADLY leave. Idk what world she’s living in where bcs she raised us, we owe her. I have no problem telling her I came back here bcs of my sisters. Like bsffr you honestly think I came back for you??? Delusional if you think so

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Anonymous 4w

She should be lucky I even came here and that I’m still here cause I would’ve been gone if I wanted to 🙄

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Anonymous 4w

awwww 🥺 me and moms was so there at one point, had a whole fight and everything. (i’m a girl) we still argue but that’s my girl fr now. and i’m not gonna say it’s gonna get better bc idk you guys’ dynamic, but give it time and space and I mean lots of it! I hope it gets better and if it doesn’t, at least yk you tried!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

but I do get it though. sometimes, some people are just unbearable and unwilling and there’s nothing you can do about it, no matter how hard you try

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m just upset bcs I’m 20, and I know that’s not “grown” like I’m obvi still very young and have a lot to learn, but I had to grow up fast, so I’m aware of everything, and I’m old enough to make my own choices and express my feelings. I hate that I’m not allowed to show an emotion other than joy around her, it’s frustrating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I get that!! i’m 22 so we’re not that far apart. my mom was just like that, always threw everything she did back in our (me and my sister) faces when we used to voice our emotions with her like we owed her and that we were supposed to constantly thank her but that’s the job when you have kids, but we had to teach her it was more to having kids than just providing. it wasn’t her fault, she want taught, she had my sister young and life did come at her fast so she was hard pressed to find time for

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

wasn’t^* her own emotions. we’ve all came a very long way and it wasn’t easy at all, but luckily she was willing to learn. if they’re not willing, don’t make or force them. don’t force anybody to treat you right! it comes automatically from anybody who loves you fr

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