guys who say they’re a “dom” and then not let you have a say in what happens during the deed, ignores your needs, and doesn’t give you aftercare are just abusers. Please actually look up what these terms mean.
I like being a dom but I always talk about what people want and are okay with first
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Anonymous5w
no bc this is exactly why i dont trust men who say theyre kinky or into bdsm. 9/10 times they just wanna get off on abusing women and pretend itd be empowering for them or something
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Anonymous#15w
exactly. Engaging in kink requires CONSENT and TRUST.